FEATURE

Real World Cases: Financial Discernment

In this episode of The Reformed Deacon, host Tim Hopper is joined by Jared Grigg, deacon at Acacia Reformed Church in Manassas, Virginia; Ray Pellerin, deacon at Merrimack Valley OPC in North Andover, Massachusetts; and Lynne Hunter, deacon at Harvest OPC in Wyoming, Michigan, for another “real-world cases” discussion. Together, they address common but often challenging situations in diaconal ministry, including chronic shortfalls in giving, the balance between financial assistance and personal responsibility, and how to care wisely for individuals and families in need without fostering dependency.

The conversation also explores how to navigate disagreements within a diaconate, how to support young couples facing financial strain, and how to respond when needs arise within a pastor’s own family. Throughout, the discussion highlights the importance of humility, mutual submission, and thoughtful, gospel-centered care. This episode provides practical insight and encouragement for deacons seeking to serve their congregations with both compassion and discernment.

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Maturing in Diaconal Service

In this episode of The Reformed Deacon, host Tim Hopper is joined by seasoned deacon McRay Simmons to reflect on what it means to grow in maturity and perseverance in diaconal ministry. Drawing on more than two decades of experience, Simmons emphasizes spiritual growth shaped by the Holy Spirit’s work through years of service. The conversation highlights common challenges deacons face—discouragement, overwhelming workloads, and the temptation to rely on their own strength rather than the Lord. A central theme throughout the episode is the need for intentional dependence on God through prayer, as Simmons candidly reflects on his own struggle with a “do-first” mindset and the ongoing call to repentance and humility in service.

The episode also underscores the importance of fellowship, communication, and mutual encouragement among deacons, especially in difficult seasons or contexts where resources may be limited. Simmons shares how relationships with fellow deacons, elders, and his own family have sustained him, and offers practical encouragement in delegation, caring for one’s household, and maintaining spiritual health while serving others. This episode underscores the reality that diaconal ministry requires perseverance, prayer, and a continual reliance on the Lord, who sustains His servants as they press on in their calling.

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